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Originally Posted by Face Up.
You’re not childish at all.
I think as far as college goes, where you go to school and what your area of study is can make a difference. If you’re not getting good vibes from a school and aren’t studying a major that you’re interested in, it can be hard to succeed. In my experience it’s easier to study when the information is relevant to your interests. I’m not saying it’s ever going to be fun to study, but it’s a bit easier when you actually care about what’s being taught.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to have fun in life and not worry about how others will perceive you. Of course 100% of one’s life can’t be fun but it helps when you have some personal time for yourself to discover what you are interested in, whether it’s a hobby, skill, etc.
Some colleges have social groups on campus which may make having a social life easier. My college had tons of them. At least you’d know that they’re living a similar experience as you and they have things in common. A work/school/life balance is important.
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Thank you, I am excited for college specifically for the same reason as you mentioned. I was hoping I could maybe get better at socialising once I get into college. I have doubts like right now but I do hope that everything will turn out alright.
And I'm not sure what major I'm actually interested in but I do love storytelling and find someone who's able to create an interesting story to be admirable so I majored in english literature. I'm not sure if I'll like it yet though so sometimes when my mom said something a little mean about how I'll waste away in college it hurts a bit more than it really should have. But that's not really a big deal I think. Or at least I won't make it into a bigger deal that it should be.