[Face Up.]

I'm agender and haven't come out to my parents either, so I get that. I also tend to wear more feminine clothing, mainly because leggings and a T-shirt are comfy I also am out to a lot of friends. But what you wear and your dysphoria/lack thereof isn't what makes you fall under a non-cis identity. It can even be the gender euphoria part, or just a FEELING. And that feeling is valid.

It's okay that you don't fully know what your label is right now. It's honestly fine to just try out different labels to see what fits with you. Gender is a fluid thing, meaning there isn't one "right" or "wrong" way to experience your gender. You just do what is most comfortable to you. You don't even HAVE to use a label if you don't want to, or maybe use the umbrella "queer" or "nonbinary."

Don't feel bad or invalid because you don't experience gender in the same way as other people. Not everyone needs to go on this long, difficult journey. Go at your own pace.