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Re: when does drunken sex become rape? - August 9th 2010, 08:26 AM
Basically if you have sex with a drunk woman and get her pregnant, she can always pull the rape card because she probably can't remember giving her consent, whether she gave it or not, and if it went to court I'm guessing a jury would be more symapthetic to her, especially if people hear that you've been wanting to lose your virginity for ages and that she was wasted - a perfect target for you. Most likely they'll side with her. Then YOU'RE the one in trouble. Would it really be worth it? Nah-ah. Then when word gets round you'll be down as someone who takes advantage of people and who can only get some with someone who's out of her senses. You don't want that kind of label.

Either way, having sex with a drunk person is taking advantage of them. A decent man (AND woman) would turn to the other person and say "Sorry, you're drunk, I'm not having sex with you." That will earn you more respect from people than losing your virginity will.



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