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Originally Posted by XAmandaBitezX

i am going to tell her! i havent really talked to her in a while. we both are really busy
but i will do it

Please have someone else there while you are telling her that, too.

If you are planning to keep the child while your mother refuse to support this, then it's a wise choice to explain yourself to another person first--perhaps your boyfriend's family, your aunt/uncle/grandpa/grandma, or your school's counselor.

After you have found a person who have agreed to help, have that person be present when you are going to tell your mother this. The last thing we want to happen right now is to have you and your mother enter "lionesses' fury mode" against each other. This person will act as a peace-keeper while you two talk.

Have your boyfriend present, too, if you can. Your boyfriend's present there is preparation in case of the worst situation. At worst, he's going to be the outlet for your mother's fury. And he would be fine, don't worry; if he's going to parent a child, then he should at least be able to take this. He's the man you chose after all, right?


And good luck to both of you and the child!