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Hey, guys. I quickly read over each of your replies, and thank you dearly for trying to help. I will talk to him as soon as I find the time, and we will work it out, I am assured.

In all honesty, I am not ready to stop sex yet...I shouldn't have used the terms "giving him" sex, because I wanted it too. It's just...it feels wrong sometimes, and other times it feels right. Often, I am completely indifferent on the subject. But when I go to my church and they preach about how sex before marriage is wrong, it all comes crashing back down. I'm not sure whether I need to tell him I want to stop, or just keep going and see where it takes us.

He is Christian, the same as me, but he was raised in more of a Methodist setting, while I am freewill Baptist. (I know; the hardcore, old people kind.) But I greatly appreciate all of your advice and will definitely take to heart the fact that I need to speak with him should this bother me anymore.

God bless.