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Re: Is this rape? - April 4th 2011, 12:39 PM

Silence is not saying no. It's very different. Body language can say no, but body language can also say yes or that you're okay with the guy taking the lead. Unless a man or woman says no or makes it extremely clear that they don't want this to happen with their body language, how on earth is a guy to know that they don't want it to happen? Men are not mind readers. In a situation where a woman 'froze up' and felt unable to say no, then of course I have complete sympathy for her, but I have an equal amount of sympathy for the (innocent) guy and would condemn anyone who felt it was justifiable to ruin his life over something he could not have foreseen.


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