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				Re: 3 months pregnant and I didn't even know? - 
            
          
		
		
				
		
				May 7th 2011, 11:52 PM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
I really think you should consider adoption. In my opinion, no one under the age of 20 (at the very least) is emotionally, financially, and realistically ready for a baby, let alone two. I know it seems all beautiful and happy and whatnot, but in reality your life will essentially come to an end at such a young age. You'll have no time to yourself, you'll have no money for yourself, everything will (and should) be devoted to the children). I believe it is fully appropriate for teenhelpers to help people with a situation, whether that be unconditional support or a blunt explanation of the facts. It is a reality and must be faced.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
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