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Re: Bestfriends pregnant?? - June 10th 2011, 01:23 PM

It's like everyone has said. You can't make her do anything, and continually telling her what to do, will only change things between you both and not for the better. You pushing her to have the baby is exactly the same as if something happened to you and she pushed you to get an abortion. You don't agree with it and you'd probably get mad after a while. This is a fight that you need to give up on and regardless of what the bible says, when the egg is fertilized it becomes an embryo, it's just an itty bitty tiny particle, nothing more. It can't feel anything, and nothing has yet developed. The bible, as Marguerite pointed out, also says the world was created in 7 days. And not everyone has the same religious beliefs anyway. You wouldn't want a friend to not only tell you to get an abortion but say it's because you should be their religion over your own, now would you? Mentally put yourself in her position. She is probably scared out of her mind, and knows she isn't ready to care for a baby, meanwhile her friend is sitting there trying to tell her what to do when her mind is already made up. You may not think so, but I think you would get pretty angry in her position. And you can't really blame her for it.

Just cool down, because it's her life and she's going to do what she wants to and feels is right in this situation and to be honest, there's nothing you can really do about it. But continuing on like you are, will only make your friendship weaker if not non-existent.


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