[Kitty.]

Hello,

Due to the fact that your father is abusive, I do not recommend telling him before telling anyone else. As shown by his abusive history, it is possible that he would either become violent or degrade you. I believe that the best option is to tell another family member or to even tell someone (preferably an adult) about this situation. It is also crucial that you get the police involved because you will be bringing a child into the world and it is important that they grow up in the healthiest environment possible.

In addition to these things, it is also important that you inform your doctor that the father of your child is your father. It is possible that the child could have some form of deformity or disability due to the fact that the child is a product of incest. This information will aid the doctor in helping him decide the best care for you during pregnancy to ensure that your child is as healthy as possible.
Good luck and stay strong.

Take care,
Kitty.