[Dr.Bobby]

No one was expecting or wanting this, so it's understandable for them to be a bit emotional. The larger issue, obviously, is the baby! Let's hope the emotions pass and both families can work together to use the time until the birth to set things up so you guys have every chance of success. Who did what and how and who's responsibility it was is really irrelevant now, that particular horse has left the barn.

I'd recommend you encourage them to keep their eye on the ball here and work with them on a plan to make this all work, and avoid all the emotion, it's really counterproductive.