[Coffee.]

Hey Ben,

You've done the right thing. You've set up a consent point between the two of you, which is stopped at taking off clothes. That is awesome. Everybody is different, and if you guys are saving yourselves for marriage, I would highly recommend you continue having the consented "How far can we go?" As you get older, or your relationship progresses, this may change. You could allow less clothes, or hand stuff (such as hand jobs/fingering). It depends on you, how far you want to go is your choice. Just make sure you are both comfortable, and don't let anybody else influence you (like anybody in here ) about when these decisions will be made.

Good luck!