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Re: Me and my girlfriend of 4 years on a break - May 9th 2012, 03:24 PM

Hey Ashley, first of all it sounds like you have been working hard to make this right. Is she doing the same thing? It seems like you two just need to get on the same page as far as what you expect from each other and where you see things going and communicate effectively. Something too that I think you should keep in mind is that for a long-term relationship there will always be periods of dullness. You can't have that romantic, passionate intense love forever. It will change and that romantic element will pop in here and there when the moment is right, and it seems like you want to make it work. You just need to find out where she stands on the whole thing.

Best of luck,
Alex


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