So this seems to be a bit of a theme with me. I have a crush on a guy for ages, things seem to be going ok, and then they ask out a mutual friend instead... I think just now is the 4th time this has happened, all with guys I've liked for a while.
The guy I like at the moment is a little older, and we get on really well- I see him all the time and he lives round the corner so we do spend a reasonable amount of time just the two of us. I know that I'm not particularly 'obvious' when I flirt, and a lot of my female friends are far more obvious.. in particular I'm pretty sure he doesn't realise I like him- at least if he does then he's definitely lead me on a bit. Sooo I think he's just being friendly. URGH.
Anyway my friend today told me he asked her on a date, and I def didn't react great.. I decided to tell her that I liked him (but obv to not feel bad and that I'll just deal with it.. which I will). Now thinking that may have been an error- I don't want to make her feel bad about it- as mentioned before my flirting is pretty subtle so she def had no idea that I liked him...
Just feel shitty about the whole thing- to spend so much time liking someone and then now I just need to forget the whole thing
