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Re: Would you consider this to be rape? - January 16th 2013, 05:22 PM
Hi there,

I'm so sorry you have had to go through this. In my opinion, and the opinion of the law in the UK (I don't know where you're from), it is rape. You were not in a position where you could consent whilst thinking clearly, as you were drunk. Therefore anything he did, meant he was taking advantage of you in that state. Like Cheye said, it doesn't matter if you said yes at the time, you weren't thinking straight. It isn't your fault, please please don't believe that. Honestly it isn't.

I have been in a position similar to this before, if you ever want to talk about it then feel free to shoot me a message. Also, no-one here judges you at all, we are here to help as best we can. Unfortunately these things happen, they can happen to anyone, but that doesn't reduce the impact it can have on us.

I hope you are okay, take care.
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