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lady24 December 4th 2012 08:16 AM

rape?
 
Ok so my bf at the time and I had a pretty rough relationship. Wed fight off and on. One night I think he was drunk. He started to come on to me forcing himself on me.i said no twice but he continued. So I just gave in... Faked it all so he would finish and get off me. Is this rape??

losthope December 4th 2012 08:36 AM

Re: rape?
 
Hi There-

If you said no then yes it is rape because even after you said no you ended up having sex and you did not want to.

Please know that you can talk to me about whats going on. You can send me a PM.

-Lost Hope

Tigerlily. December 4th 2012 10:39 AM

Re: rape?
 
In short, yes it was because you said no. You told him no and he knew you didn't want to, therefore it was in fact rape and I'm sorry that it ever happened to you. Have you considered talking to an adult or professional about what happened?

lady24 December 4th 2012 03:47 PM

Re: rape?
 
Ive only told a friend by asking as if it didnt happen. Other than that I havent told anyone. Never thought anything of it...

Adam the Fish December 4th 2012 04:35 PM

Re: rape?
 
Yes, I would consider that rape.

I would strongly suggest that it might be an idea to see if you can find a counciller, and then you can talk about it with them.

On TH, you're very welcome to shoot me a PM any time you want to talk to someone privately :).

lady24 December 4th 2012 04:43 PM

Re: rape?
 
Its weird. I think im in denial. I feel angry yet part of me is like ah it was such a minir case of rape. It doesnt feel like a huge deal guess maybe cuz it happened about a year ago. Jist never thought.of.it. Is this normal to feel like this?

CountOnMe December 4th 2012 06:04 PM

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People react in different ways it is completley normal to feel like this :)
- Kayleigh -

vasioannou December 4th 2012 06:21 PM

Re: rape?
 
yes this is rape! You said no and he forced himself on you! you should consider talking to a counselor or your parents. if i was you i'd even press charges!

-BTW there's not MINOR case of rape! he did something awful and i'm really sorry that something horrible like that happened to you! If you ever want to talk to someone you can PM me any time!

lady24 December 4th 2012 08:14 PM

Re: rape?
 
It happened almost a year ago. I dont remember the time or day. At the time i was pregnant... Ive had dreams of being raped. Didnt occur to me that girls who are rapes have dreams. I looked it up and then thought bout it again

Coffee. December 4th 2012 08:17 PM

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You were coerced, so you did not give proper consent. Have you thought about going to a counselor to talk about what happened? :hug:

lady24 December 4th 2012 08:22 PM

Re: rape?
 
Ive thought bout if I do tell someone id talk to my pastor.


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