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Nonoka July 30th 2017 06:30 PM

Moving back home with my parents.
 
On my most recent visit to my parents house I told them that I am planning to continue working full time instead of finishing high school. My Dad got angry and we ended up having a huge argument. In the end he told me that if my decision to not finish my last year of highschool is for financial reasons then I should move back home with them with my daughter so that I can finish my last year. I haven't lived at home for nearly a year and a half and only recently started visiting home and trying to have a good relationship with my Dad again. I have wanted to move back home all this time, I never wanted to leave in the first place but my Dad kicked me out. Now I'm not sure if it's a good idea, I'm worried it might not work out again if he kicked me out once he could do it again. But I agreed to it since I do want to finish highschool if I can. So I guess I'm moving home with my daughter... Definitely not looking forward to how awkward it's going to be. I hope I don't regret this decision.

DeletedAccount69 July 30th 2017 08:50 PM

Re: Moving back home with my parents.
 
Do you have a back up plan in case your dad kicks you out? If you don't you might want to figure something out.

That being said, it is best if you finish high school, at the very least. Most places are hesitant to higher someone that doesn't have a high school diploma etc. So, I think that giving this a try couldn't hurt. I know it will probably be awkward but once you finish school you can consider moving out etc.

Nonoka August 9th 2017 06:45 PM

Re: Moving back home with my parents.
 
We've moved and settled in. Its nice that my daughter now has her own bedroom and I am glad to be finishing high school after all. My Dad has been talking to me a lot more since I moved back he almost seems back to normal but he drives me crazy that he always has something to say about how I should parent
My daughter especially when up until recently he had nothing to do with us and left us on our own. Also a lot of his parenting advice is outdated but he thinks he knows better then me about everything. Could be worse though. And yes if things don't work out again I could go back to my Grandma's if I have to but now that I'm here I hope it doesn't come to that again.


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