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Justin_

November 29th 2021 03:36 AM

Do you know what this means?

in my college class I was sitting at the table by myself and I was on my phone & there was a chair next to me and the girl I liked was with her friends and she saw that there was chair next to me. so she went over to get the chair while I was on my phone but she stand there for a few minutes but then she got the chair and went back to her friends.

Astro04

November 29th 2021 08:26 AM

Re: Do you know what this means?

I guess you're not an interesting person to chat with?

Mallika

November 29th 2021 10:37 AM

Re: Do you know what this means?

Hi Justin,

Thanks for reaching out! When we have a crush on someone, it’s very natural to analyse their every move, especially when we have something to do with their interactions.

However, in my humble opinion, I don’t think there is any significant meaning to what she did. She might just be regarding you temporarily while she went to get the chair. Unless there is an overt expression of her interest, I wouldn’t think there was much to her standing near you.

If you really like her, you might want to share how you feel with her. Perhaps you could write her a letter or meet her in private after school. That way, based on her response, you will know for sure how she feels about you. Of course, you don’t have to do this until you pluck the courage to (confessing is nerve-racking!).

Wishing you the best :hug:

Rivière

November 29th 2021 11:08 PM

Re: Do you know what this means?

There could be dozens of reasons for her behaviour. Maybe she wanted to talk to you. Maybe she saw something and got distracted for a moment. Maybe that was the closest chair available and it happened to be one nearest to you as well.

We can sit speculating and overanalysing what happened. But no one is ever really going to truly know what significance there was, if there was any at all.

I think Mallika gave some great suggestions on how you could talk to this girl. Why not make a move and see how it goes?

kirilpopinin

January 27th 2022 05:13 PM

Re: Do you know what this means?

Я думаю она не хочет с вами общаться

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