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Yours Truly May 22nd 2012 02:31 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by alexjames (Post 877967)
But, how important are physical 'features' (such as large ''man's area'') and looks to a girl. Or can an ugly and 'small'' Guy but with a nice personality have a chance?
Personality is definitley the most important thing for me.. Not even just if the guy is nice, but a good sense of humor, similar interests, etc..

Don't say you're ugly. You're being too hard on yourself. (: Confidence is also a big factor for a lot of people.. The more confident you are, the more likely it is that peopel will notice you, etc.. :D

Anyone worth anyones time should be able to look past any physical imperfections, becuse no ones perfect. But that doesn't mean people always do, unfortunatley.


My question is for anyone, guys or girls: If you were attracted to someone.. Then found out They have had numerous surgeries.. have a lot of scars.. Physically.. Like.. covered in surgical scars,.. Would that bother you? :?

alexjames May 22nd 2012 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Yours Truly (Post 881514)
Personality is definitley the most important thing for me.. Not even just if the guy is nice, but a good sense of humor, similar interests, etc..

Don't say you're ugly. You're being too hard on yourself. (: Confidence is also a big factor for a lot of people.. The more confident you are, the more likely it is that peopel will notice you, etc.. :D

Anyone worth anyones time should be able to look past any physical imperfections, becuse no ones perfect. But that doesn't mean people always do, unfortunatley.


My question is for anyone, guys or girls: If you were attracted to someone.. Then found out They have had numerous surgeries.. have a lot of scars.. Physically.. Like.. covered in surgical scars,.. Would that bother you? :?
Thank you :) I suppose I just haven't got that confidence needed in me, plus even though you say it don't matter, things like size still is a huge (well...small!!) insecurity and embarassment. I can't see myself ever getting out of this shell TBH


And no, aslong as she is a loving, caring, sweet girl,that's all that matter. Things like scars and cute don't matter, I'd just worry about how she got them, and take care of her :)

havehopeyourbeautiful May 23rd 2012 12:38 AM
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no personality is a big factor for me it is how i chose who i like and i dont !

no scars bother me i would be loving caring and listen i will do everything i can to make them happy and comftorble !

would it bother you if they flirt while they are with you ? ( i dont do this my ex does)

JohnCoop May 23rd 2012 01:54 AM
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Sorry if this is a sensitive question but it has been one that has always boggled my mind.

Girls, why is it that y'all give guys who have been a jerk to you a second or third chance(s)?

Age of Ignorance May 23rd 2012 01:58 AM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
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Originally Posted by JohnCoop (Post 881872)
Sorry if this is a sensitive question but it has been one that has always boggled my mind.

Girls, why is it that y'all give guys who have been a jerk to you a second or third chance(s)?
I don't think anyone can really answer this. Guys do exactly the same thing, mind you.

Evanesco May 23rd 2012 08:24 AM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
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Originally Posted by JohnCoop (Post 881872)
Sorry if this is a sensitive question but it has been one that has always boggled my mind.

Girls, why is it that y'all give guys who have been a jerk to you a second or third chance(s)?
I think girls and guys do this, and it's just because it's human to forgive and to think the person will have changed.

TheNinjaOne June 9th 2012 11:23 AM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnCoop (Post 881872)
Sorry if this is a sensitive question but it has been one that has always boggled my mind.

Girls, why is it that y'all give guys who have been a jerk to you a second or third chance(s)?
Goin through this right now... I have no idea:?, I guess (personally) I just feel that sometimes the good outweighs the bad...? though I know that the bad will come back and bite me in the ass.


Guys: girls with tattoos or girls with piercings? Good/Bad?

JohnCoop June 9th 2012 02:57 PM
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I don't mind ears and belly buttons but I find it unattractive when a girl has her lips, nose, tongue, eyebrows, cheeks and multiple other piercings done, its just way too much in too many different places. I generally don't like tattoos that much at all, especially gigantic ones that cover half an arm or something.

oldaccount June 10th 2012 01:25 AM
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To guys: WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH LOOKING AND APPEARING MACHO?!

Jack Lowden June 10th 2012 01:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Intoxication (Post 893863)
To guys: WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH LOOKING AND APPEARING MACHO?!
I'm not a guy, but probably the same reason why girls obsess with looking pretty.

Eternal June 10th 2012 01:56 AM
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Originally Posted by Intoxication (Post 893863)
To guys: WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH LOOKING AND APPEARING MACHO?!
Its mostly because of society and the social media.
Girls are seen as being dainty and beautiful, whereas guys are seen as macho and manly.
So its pretty much what Barbara said. Guys think it makes them more attractive if their very manly, just like girls think they won't be attractive unless they are small and cute.

♥Bliz June 11th 2012 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Intoxication (Post 893863)
To guys: WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH LOOKING AND APPEARING MACHO?!
hahaha, I'm not, Im rather skinny, but think about it like this... I'm sure you want to look pretty right? do you want to be skiny and envy others. Girls think they need to be skinny and a little slutty looking to get guys, guys think they need to be big and strong in order to get girls... because in the end, isnt that what they look at? I see my friends all looking at shirtless guys wtih big museles... but me, i know anyone worth dating is gonna love me for me. My friends would never dat a guy for just looks, and looks wouldn't matter if I they have a great personality, so I am not worried. My friends call me skinny (female friends) and it makes me feel bad, cuz i dont have big arms or stomach, but I pride myself in the musceles i do have, and remember it really doesn't matter.


Why are girls so confusing, why don't they say what they want and just play games with the guys they crush on or court? Why are they so shy about expressing themselves, it'd make things os much easier. I admit that I wont often confess my feelings, but thats becuase they are so scared to also, and it makes me think that they dont have feelings for me... what a paradox. at least the one girl I'm dancing the sweetest dance with started showing it. And yes, I'm very recieving... ^.^

NevermindMe June 11th 2012 08:29 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Intoxication (Post 893863)
To guys: WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH LOOKING AND APPEARING MACHO?!
Social standards and whatnot. Living up to be a provider and protector are the expectations of men. Many try their best to live up to that, even if it's not truly who they are.

- Justin

2The Doctor2 June 12th 2012 11:07 AM
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We are not all obsessed I am not afraid to say I'm a wimp I am A star trek fan who couldn't hurt anyone if I tried

Girls: would you tell just anyone your boob size.( I know I sound like a perv but the girls in my class kind of scare me when they do)

Devyani June 12th 2012 07:56 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
No. We don't tell our size to anyone. I'm actually surprised that the girls in your class do that. Or they might be just showing off? :o
Maybe some girls do. It's really up to them.

Boys: Why are you always LATE by at least 10 mins?

Acheron June 12th 2012 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Devyani (Post 896004)
Boys: Why are you always LATE by at least 10 mins?
It's a way of showing we care less than you do. Anything over ten minutes is overkill, though.

JohnCoop June 13th 2012 03:54 AM
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I'm don't usually arrive any where late. I'm usually the opposite, either arriving 5 to 10 min early or less than 5 late. Of course, this is barring factors outside my control like traffic, bad weather, lost car keys (kind of my fault lol) but I've never been on a date so I can't really say how it would be annoying if someone was late to one.

Devyani June 13th 2012 06:35 AM
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not only on a date, even when we hang out, the guys are late. And they have no genuine excuse

2The Doctor2 June 13th 2012 10:22 AM
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I have never dated so I cant be sure but I would at least try to be on time

Girls: what are your thoughts on porn?(Do you think it's acceptable)

Jack Lowden June 13th 2012 10:16 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
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Originally Posted by trogdor (Post 896536)
Girls: what are your thoughts on porn?(Do you think it's acceptable)
There's nothing wrong with porn, even I watch it from time to time.

JamesTyler June 14th 2012 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Yours Truly (Post 881514)
My question is for anyone, guys or girls: If you were attracted to someone.. Then found out They have had numerous surgeries.. have a lot of scars.. Physically.. Like.. covered in surgical scars,.. Would that bother you? :?
NO, it wouldn't bother me. I dated a girl for a while that had sever burns from an accident. We are still friends and she is still one of the most beautiful people I know.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Devyani (Post 896004)
No. We don't tell our size to anyone. I'm actually surprised that the girls in your class do that. Or they might be just showing off? :o
Maybe some girls do. It's really up to them.

Boys: Why are you always LATE by at least 10 mins?
I'm usually there to early... LOL ... sometime wait down the road until its closer to the time to meet.

I know, weird....

Peace-21 June 15th 2012 11:23 AM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
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Originally Posted by trogdor (Post 895747)

Girls: would you tell just anyone your boob size.
Every single one of my close friends who are female know my bra size and I know theirs :nosweat: I know that a lot of my friends are quite self concious about their sizes and think they're 'small' which leads to trying to convince them that they're not which then leads to a confession of bra sizes :hehe:

I don't know if this has been asked yet but what's everyone's take on having a possessive/clingy partner? would you find it annoying or would you take it as a sign of love?

JohnCoop June 17th 2012 03:19 AM
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It would depend on the amount of clingy/possessiveness for me.
I'm a rather independent person, so I would definitely like some space and some alone time but I also would like a girlfriend who isn't necessarily afraid to bug me a little bit, because at least then I'll know she cares, but not so much that she wants to know of my whereabouts 24/7/365.

NevermindMe June 17th 2012 05:21 PM
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Peace-21: "Clingy" is okay, to me that shows that they really, really care about you. It might be a tad annoying, but it's something you could work through

"Posessive" on the other hand is normally fueled by jealousy, not love and as a result it's not okay.

- Justin

Eternal June 18th 2012 02:56 AM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by trogdor (Post 895747)
Girls: would you tell just anyone your boob size.( I know I sound like a perv but the girls in my class kind of scare me when they do)
I'm not really that reserved so yeah, I would tell people my bra size. I mean its pretty easy to guess anyway, so I don't really see the harm in telling people. However if someone really creepy asked, then obviously that would be an exception. :p

Jack Lowden June 18th 2012 10:37 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by trogdor (Post 895747)
Girls: would you tell just anyone your boob size.( I know I sound like a perv but the girls in my class kind of scare me when they do)
I actually do that already. I don't really care if people know my bra size, it's not a big deal.

Raining Glitter June 18th 2012 11:23 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by trogdor (Post 895747)
We are not all obsessed I am not afraid to say I'm a wimp I am A star trek fan who couldn't hurt anyone if I tried

Girls: would you tell just anyone your boob size.( I know I sound like a perv but the girls in my class kind of scare me when they do)

Personally, I'm more insecure about my boobs so I don't tell most people. Most people also don't ask. Depending in the situation, it can be rude to ask. I've known a few boys who would guess, and that's just insulting-danger territory. It's like guessing a girl's pants size. It can be triggering too since the number in the bra size represents circumference. Plus, some girls are insecure about their boobs size. It might not be triggering for me, but for others, it can be. I don't want to give a chance of making a girl feel bad about herself and compare herself to me because she overheard. I personally place it as a subject to not talk about, but that's me.

You shouldn't be scared of girls who can confidently say their size. Don't worry, they won't bite! It's probably a part of their body they are proud of or at least more open about. Sharing their size doesn't mean anything is wrong with the girl, nor does it make the girl more open to sexual ideas.

msbunbun June 19th 2012 03:47 PM
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Question for either sex. What do you do when you think an ex still likes you but acts like a total jerk to your face after six years of being together?

Jack Lowden June 19th 2012 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by msbunbun (Post 900858)
Question for either sex. What do you do when you think an ex still likes you but acts like a total jerk to your face after six years of being together?
I'm actually still dealing with a jerk ex who keeps trying to contact me. I've just ignored any form of contact & if he finds any reasons to meet up (such as swapping back school supplies), I talk to his mom instead. So I guess my answer is just avoid any contact, although this was a more severe situation.

TwikiE June 21st 2012 12:09 AM
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GIRLS: Why do you sometimes ignore us(boys)?
Would you date someone if they said they liked you but you didn't like them back?

Jack Lowden June 21st 2012 10:47 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
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Originally Posted by TwikiE (Post 901680)
Why do you sometimes ignore us(boys)?
I only ignore people I don't like or don't care for, but that goes for both guys & girls, not just guys.

Quote:
Originally Posted by TwikiE (Post 901680)
Would you date someone if they said they liked you but you didn't like them back?
Are you referring to casual dating or relationships? I've gone on dates with guys I wasn't sure about, to get to know them better & see if my feelings would change. However, if I know for sure that I don't like a guy, I won't unless he realizes we're just friends, but in that case, I wouldn't consider it a date. As for relationships, I would never be in a relationship with someone I didn't have feelings for. That wouldn't be fair to either of us.

2The Doctor2 June 22nd 2012 08:18 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Question for girls
Why can you never just tell a guy you like him/why do you make us guess?

Eternal June 22nd 2012 09:56 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by trogdor (Post 902845)
Question for girls
Why can you never just tell a guy you like him/why do you make us guess?
Same reason why guys don't always tell us. Its because it can be very scary to reveal our feelings to someone because it makes us vulnerable. Nobody wants to be rejected.

Heartofblackice June 23rd 2012 12:36 AM
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To guys:
Why do most guys my age mostly want skinny girls (i've been on a few dating sites and the guys on them who think i'm attractive are in their 30s..ew)

silversun June 23rd 2012 12:46 AM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by trogdor (Post 902845)
Question for girls
Why can you never just tell a guy you like him/why do you make us guess?
It's mostly a fear of rejection, which I know some guys have too.

PSY June 23rd 2012 07:19 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
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Originally Posted by Cloud9rainbow (Post 903022)
To guys:
Why do most guys my age mostly want skinny girls (i've been on a few dating sites and the guys on them who think i'm attractive are in their 30s..ew)
I know I'm not a guy, but I just wanted to comment on this, because I'm what you would consider "curvy" and I asked a similar question years ago. Every guy has different preferences. Some men want "stick figures," some want the "hourglass figures," some want "BBW" (big beautiful women), etc. It really just depends, and girls are the same way! Some want ultra-muscular men, some want men who can wear skinny jeans, some want men who are a little chunky, etc. With all of that being said, the media tends to portray two types of women as "ideal": the "stick figures," and the "hourglass figures." Younger men tend to feel more pressure to like and look for women who fall into those two categories. As they grow older, they tend to become more certain of their preferences, hence the reason why 30-something year old men are going for you, but the 18-year-old men aren't. Be patient, and I can assure you that someone will come along and love the way you look. =)

Jack Lowden June 23rd 2012 08:14 PM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by trogdor (Post 902845)
Question for girls
Why can you never just tell a guy you like him/why do you make us guess?
I wouldn't say every girl does this, just as not every guy does this. As others have said though, it could be the fear of rejection. However personally, there have been a couple of circumstances where it was either best to leave things unsaid or it was bit more complicated than "I like you, you like me, let's date" type of thing. It all depends on the person for their reasoning not to say this.

Eternal June 25th 2012 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted by TwikiE (Post 901680)
GIRLS: Why do you sometimes ignore us(boys)?
This can depend. There are two common reasons for this. Sometimes its because we just don't care for them because they are rude or annoying, or its because we don't return the same feelings but feel too bad about it to actually say anything.
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Originally Posted by TwikiE (Post 901680)
Would you date someone if they said they liked you but you didn't like them back?
No, I would not. There wouldn't be any point to that because dating is the stage where you are getting to know someone who you think you could get into a serious relationship with. If I didn't have feelings for them, it would be like dating a friend or my brother. :p

BestFriend June 26th 2012 01:59 PM
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of course, sex is not love. if person loves you, just talking to you and lookinag at you smiling would be enough for that person

2The Doctor2 June 27th 2012 02:20 AM
Re: Questions for the opposite sex
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cloud9rainbow (Post 903022)
To guys:
Why do most guys my age mostly want skinny girls (i've been on a few dating sites and the guys on them who think i'm attractive are in their 30s..ew)
I can't really say for guys your age but I do know guys my age don't really care they care more about personality

Girls: why do you all think you're ugly


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