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ok so i know sometimes guys like outgoing girls and stuff but what about shy girls?do guys generally like nice,but also, shy girls,that ya know blush easily and stuff like that?

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Yes. Blushing is extra-specially adorable. Shy girls make me go "squeee!" inside.

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Nope. I've actually had this situation come up. We're still very good friends :)
Hm... it depends. Right now, it's definitely a turn off. However, I wouldn't completely rule it out. Like already mentioned, it's more about maturity.
Both are important. You really can't be attracted to someone if you find them ugly, but you can't be attracted to someone if their personality is ugly. Personally, I find that if a start to get to know a guy with an attractive personality I will find him more attractive physically.

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Yeah, the girls I like tend to be more shy and the girl I've met recently is.

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hiyo...

been in a serious relationship with a guy for 1 1/2 years, and we've been through alot of significant things together. we were inseperable throughout the relationship, and had to spend alot of time alone because of circumstances (as opposed to hanging out with a group of friends)...

now he's pulling away! used to want me there all the time, now he wants to "do his own thing more". in all fairness, he's been in relationships for three years, has a low self-esteem, and really never built solid relationships with himself or guys his age. family issues also played a part...

so! sorry for the novel. but, as the girl in the situation...... guys, if you said you wanted to do your "own thing more", became considerably less affectionate, and are trying to figure yourself out (we are still young, after all)... what would you want/need/expect your girlfriend to do?

be honest! is he blowing me off?

Matthew: good looks don't hurt, but i'm all about the personality! :)

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No he probably isn't blowing you off, but he might just need some time to himself and do things he wants to do, he doesn't want you gone, if he did he would break up with you, he just wants space really like you can talk to him and be affectionate still, but I think he wants some time to himself at times and not spend every second with you.

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yeaaah thanks, normally i'm pretty rational but he just threw me for a loop with that one, the amount of time we spent together was a bar set by him (obviously i allowed it to be what it is, takes two to tango, but i went along with how he acted, he is my first boyfriend haha...) so i was a little thrown off. but thanks!!

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I'm into the very open girls. In a relationship, I prefer things to be thrown into the wind and caution flown out the window - I don't know how effective it is to have a shy girl try to open up. Though, I'm sure it's extremely "squee!able" if a shy girl shows me affection and opens up to me, whilst staying closed to even her closest friends. Now, that would make me go "squeee!"

(And, thank you Acheron for the quote).

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well, since there wasnt a question
what do you say to a guy who likes you (moe than a friend of course) but you're not actually interested in him?

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Is it normal behaviour for a guy to meet his girlfriend at seven thirty in the morning completely? without complaint

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I think just tell him the truth, that you don't feel the same way. And try to act as normal as you can about it afterward. It may be awkward for a bit (it was when I told one of my friends), but you'll both get over it and things will go back to normal soon enough.

Well, I'm not sure what the situation is. I'd meet my girlfriend at any time of the day or night without complaint because I love her. I mean, I guess the context is kind of important here, but doesn't sound too abnormal to me.

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Well I'm a morning person lol, so I actually had breakfast with my gf at 7:45 this morning I like getting up early and spending time with my gf is a good reason to stay up late or get up early. lol

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do oyu think I offended him by saying i didn't want to 'sleep' with him, 'cos i wanna keep it for the guy who i have my family with?

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why do some boys still flirt with a girl after they break up with them and think it's okay?
*sorry its just im in the process of trying to get over this boy and him flirting with me is not helpful at all

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Well It's that they are just confused about what to do and say especially after being in a relationship where you are close and now it's sort of hard going back to just friends.

Maybe you want to tell him to cool it and give you a little space so he can sort out what he's thinking and you what your thinking
Good luck ^_^

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Months I can do. Weeks are pushing it, but if not overdone are alright. But it has to be actual meaningful shit, ya know? First date, first met, first kiss, okay.

First car ride together, first hug, first shared milkshake... not so much. Haha.

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Is it normal for a guy to (want to) show his current girlfriend pictures of an ex-girlfriend? I mean, is it just a select few who think this is okay?

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I mean sometimes i sort of talk about the girl I liked a lot in the past she never liked me and I do have pictures, but it depends how you feel about it if you don't like it tell him that. I do have a few pics of the girl I liked around, but I don't show them to my gf and I don't usually talk about her.

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I really want to know why I find guys who date multiple girls. They act all sweet around each of them, and talk about how they're the only one, when it's not true. I'm in the midst of such a situation right now, and I'd like to know what the reasoning behind it is and what to do.

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I can't tell you his reasoning. I personally only have 1 girlfriend and it seems like all he wants is attention/sex or something most likely. My advice dump him. Simply put you should be with someone who will be faithful to you not some guy in 3 relationships and you can't really fall in love with 3 people at the same time so yeah.

Good Luck ^_^

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Hello all. Just one question for you all. I met this guy in school the other day and we talked for a good 15 minutes and he told me about his problems going on, he vented, told me he does drugs, and asked about me. He sorta invited me to a party, he asked what I was doing for Halloween then he told me what he was doing and where the party was going to be. Anyways I found out today that he has a girlfriend. Any reason why you would tell a girl you don't know all this if you have a girl friend?

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Question to girls:

When you tell boy you really like that you dont have the time.
He doesnt contact you.
Then why do you get upset about it? - I mean you said you wont have the time isnt you susposed to show when you have time again.

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What do you mean Flowly, have time for what?
A date? a relateionship? a phone call?

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I mean like no time at all just to meet up. By saying you got school or work or such things as excuse.
- she does pick up the phone by the way.

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Hmm, well I don't know why she gets mad, that is absurd. But, well, call her and just have a conversation ready, something at school that'll be fun to talk about, or maybe a movie. Chat with her for like 10 minutes and then say you have to go and hang up. That way you talk to her but don't intrude, and hopefully leave her "wanting more" and then she'll talk to you more. That's my advice.


Question, for guys and girls. On a first date, is being awkward endearing and cute or weird and a deal breaker?

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"Question, for guys and girls. On a first date, is being awkward endearing and cute or weird and a deal breaker?"

I mean if your feeling awkward and they are obviously feeling awkward I think it's kind of cute in a way and not a deal breaker. When my gf watched a movie together for the first time and just hung out there was no awkwardness at all it just depends.

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I think it is cute if it is a certain way like if it a comfortable awkwardness then yeah but if it is like i could be doing something else right now which it shouldn't be on a first date then it is a deal breaker.

Question for guys.

Why do you never say what you mean and then get all your toying with my feelings when we start flirting them stop suddenly??


RR xx

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It's completely dependent on the guy because I never do that sort of crap. lol maybe someone can give you a better answer, but I think your having bad luck if you keep finding guys like that.

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Here's a question for you girls:

Would you ever give a 'nice' guy a chance?

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If one girl hands her hands to another girl and holds them for few seconds - both looking at each other. What does that really mean to girls?

I mean that mostly happens right before girl will be all over me. I mean the girl who hands her hands to other girl to hold them.

Is that somekind of sign that "here Im going for him" ?

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I have a question for the guys, why is it at first when your going out with them they act all sweet and perfect for a while and then after that they start to flake out on you, and start acting rude, calling you stuff, ect.? and what if they dont cheat but theyre just rude for no apparent reason??????

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i wouldnt know that, ive never changed, im always bin nice, thats a lil bit judgemental on all guys dont ya think? there are alot of dickhead guys out there, well most guys r, but there are alot of nice guys too x

why do girls find it hard to tell their boyfriends when they r on their periods? or at least not say that they wanna have sex that weekend, when the blaitently know they will be on their period? x

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Question for the guys - What would be a good way to bring up the topic of going a little further in a relationship phisically? I know most guys just kinda want it to happen, but is it a bad idea to try to talk about it first? If not, what would be a good conversation starter?

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Frankly just directly bringing it up would be best to me. Just be like hey I want to talk to you about moving toward more physical contact or something. Idk that's the best way to say it.

I honestly think talking it out first is better than you both know where you two are at about something and if you weren't or he wasn't ready you both would know and it helps to plan to make sure nothing happens that is bad.

Good Luck ^_^

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All anniversaries are annoying, except first date by the year.