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TH Anonymous

November 1st 2023 07:06 PM

worried

[SIZE="a"]so me and my gf were doing some sexual things and one of them was when i was fingering her she kept moving really quick or pause what she was doing and got really warm. did i hurt her because she said she was perfectly fine?[/size]

Ennui.

November 1st 2023 08:40 PM

Re: worried

Getting warm or hot can happen during sexual activity because you're exercising and raising your body temperature, so it could be because of that. She might have been moving quickly or pausing to get the right angle or pace to help make things feel more pleasurable for her.

I don't think you hurt her, especially since she said she was perfectly fine. If it makes you feel better you can bring it up to her. Let her know that you know she said she feels fine but you want to make sure you didn't do anything that would make her feel uncomfortable or in pain. Let her know that if she ever does feel pain or discomfort when you're doing something sexual, you want to know so you can stop or do something else. Communication is important in this type of situation for sure, and she may be able to reassure you that everything is okay.

TH Anonymous

November 1st 2023 08:43 PM

Re: worried

[SIZE="a"]she said she loved it and it felt really good and didn't hurt. shes never been fingered by anyone or even by herself she said. SHe said she was twitching bc it felt really good. is this normal or is she lieing to make me feel fine[/size]

Ennui.

November 1st 2023 08:58 PM

Re: worried

It sounds normal to me! Twitching can be a natural body response to the pleasureful stimulation. As you two explore each other’s bodies you’ll learn more about what feels good and what doesn’t. Communicate what does and doesn’t feel good and you’ll be more likely to have an enjoyable experience.

Lisa3

November 2nd 2023 08:13 AM

Re: worried

It's a normal thing, don't worry :)

Unregistered

November 2nd 2023 08:23 PM

Re: worried

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]is there a way to make her feel more pleasure?[/size][/color][/font]

Ennui.

November 3rd 2023 12:09 AM

Re: worried

It takes experimentation because what’s nice for one person may not feel good for another. Maybe you two can talk about what you’d want to try together.

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