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Unregistered June 6th 2024 09:04 PM

how to ask my mom about my penis
 
[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]she has seen it many times before but I want to ask her questions about it. how can i go about asking her.[/size][/color][/font]

¯|_(ツ)_|¯ June 6th 2024 11:54 PM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
That’s a great question!

I would sit your mom down on a day when she’s in a decent mood. Do it in a room where there aren’t really distractions. It might help if you make a list of the questions you want to ask before you sit down with her so you don’t forget anything. You can tell your mom that you have questions about your health and that you want her to answer without judging you. Then proceed to ask the questions and discuss when it’s possible.

You can also write the questions in a letter that you give her. That will let you ask the questions without nerves or interruptions getting in the way. Your mom will either write you back or sit down with you in person to answer these questions.

If she doesn’t know the answer is she able to take you to a doctor or other trusted male in your life to answer the question?

DeletedAccount111 June 7th 2024 04:10 AM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
Hi there, thanks for reaching out! Personally, if I had any questions about my anatomy or its functioning, I'd ask my primary care physician. I think this is what you should do. Your mother bathed you when you were an infant and young toddler, but this does not mean she's going to have the answers you are looking for. Any questions or concerns you have would be best answered by a doctor who is qualified to assess you.

Wishing you the best of luck!

Astro04 June 7th 2024 10:44 AM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
You must be sincere. Be confident and don't hesitate, but remember! It's something private between you and your mom. Find a spot where you and your mom can talk about it alone. Pheraps your room?

Arabesque- golfing girl. June 7th 2024 02:13 PM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
When talking to your parents about anything that we are going through, make you it's just you and them without others around and if you can't say the words out loud, then try writing them a letter and then give this to them to read. This way you can say everything that you need to say without getting upset or forgetting something.

Unregistered June 7th 2024 11:49 PM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]how could I ask her about showing me how to use a condom[/size][/color][/font]

Astro04 June 8th 2024 06:24 AM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
Ah! Well, I think you can show her a single one. Or just tell her it in your intimacy. Be careful but quick when questioning. Try to not hesitate much, or else will be stressful.

Unregistered June 9th 2024 03:19 AM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]Just gotta do it. I was 14 when I needed my mom to look at it. It was horrifying to pull my pants down, but we talked about it ahead, voiced my concerns, and we agreed to be nonjudgemental.[/size][/color][/font]

Astro04 June 9th 2024 09:43 AM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
It's normal, it's a private thing, but sometimes it's better like that. Like I did 2 years ago.

Unregistered May 7th 2025 07:36 PM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
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Quote:

Originally Posted by Unregistered (Post 1394911)
[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]she has seen it many times before but I want to ask her questions about it. how can i go about asking her.[/size][/color][/font]

Well, for me the question is how to ask my son if everything is alright haha, so I figure if you just ask her, it'll be alright[/size][/color][/font]

Franceska W. May 7th 2025 07:37 PM

Re: how to ask my mom about my penis
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Unregistered (Post 1394911)
[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]she has seen it many times before but I want to ask her questions about it. how can i go about asking her.[/size][/color][/font]

Well, for me the question is how to ask ly son if everything's alright haha

So I figure if you just ask her, it'll be alright


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