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William2025 May 12th 2025 01:41 PM

[size help] general stuff i wanna ask about
 
Uh so, hello. First time here. I made an account because i have some things to ask and well i wanted more of a... human touch about this whole thing? This place seemed good enough to ask so.. yeah, i hope you all can help me out with some stuff.

So first thing first, how much is it too much? I mean, down there. From what i have noticed i am far, far bigger than my friends (flaccid at least), which i mean, it makes me sorta happy to a certain degree, but it has got me worried about how things could look for me in the future? It is already quite bothersome when hard and well, in some way i kind of dread this becoming more of an issue. Could it keep growing? and if so, until how big?

Second, how should i handle sex? I have to be careful, i understand. But well, introvertion hasn't helped me a lot with this so... uh, am lacking practical experience, so to say. Anything i ought to pay attention to or something? Or something i should do beforehand to make sure things work out? I kind of dread fumbling it when the time is right.

Third and last, anything i can do to make it less noticeable?

I hope i am not being much of a bother with this, so.. ya!

SamuelB7 May 12th 2025 04:44 PM

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Hi William welcome and we're here to help each other!! Ho w much is too much it all depends on each of us some of us are bigger than others and each presents a different condition. Maybe at ur age u have probably stopped growing. In my case I was taken to the doctor to check hormones levels and stuff like that. As far as the rest u just have to be confident with what u got doesn't matter what others think. If u gonna find a partner he/she gonna like u for who u are .

William2025 May 12th 2025 05:00 PM

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Well, i have thought about that. I mean, it makes sense but... i dunno lol, i think i have grown a lil bit too obsessed as of late, cuz i am constantly checking and what not, and it just keeps going. So hopefully it just... stops at some point. I guess i will start getting worried soon, still kinda on the edge about it as to check it out with a doctor and what not.

And ya i know, confidence and what not but introversion sucks, lol

SamuelB7 May 12th 2025 05:04 PM

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If u think its getting out of hand its better to get checked by a doctor and have him do hormones tests. That way u have peace of mind.

Astro04 May 12th 2025 05:16 PM

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Hello, :)
first of all, don't worry.

There's no exactly a size, but i guess over 10 inches (25cm) could be a little problem.
Also, you're 16. the penis will grow usually until the end of your puberty period.

About sex, as you said, you shall be careful to not hurt your partner. Use a lot of lube and don't be a jerk.
Also don't worry, In a couple, you wil find a solution for you two.

For the last point, it's hard to say. Making less noticeable is hard. Try to wear loose pants to give it more space.

William2025 May 12th 2025 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Astro04 (Post 1399717)
Hello, :)
first of all, don't worry.

There's no exactly a size, but i guess over 10 inches (25cm) could be a little problem.
Also, you're 16. the penis will grow usually until the end of your puberty period.

About sex, as you said, you shall be careful to not hurt your partner. Use a lot of lube and don't be a jerk.
Also don't worry, In a couple, you wil find a solution for you two.

For the last point, it's hard to say. Making less noticeable is hard. Try to wear loose pants to give it more space.


Uh any idea when that would be exactly? I mean like, i understand its kinda different for everyone but like an estimate would be good, lol. I kinda hover between 10 and a lil bit beyond 10.5 when hard, i mean you know, depends on how uhh stimulated i am and what not, but i haven't exactly stopped growing. It sounds embarrassing i know but i keep track lol

And yeah i guess lube is good and just taking things easy. Am just worried i might end being a lil bit too much for most and... yeah.

And lose pants is an option. Would tight underwear be suitable too? Dunno if it would cut my circulation or something like that.

SamuelB7 May 12th 2025 06:46 PM

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I know exactly what ur going through I'm around the same size

Astro04 May 12th 2025 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by William2025 (Post 1399718)
Uh any idea when that would be exactly? I mean like, i understand its kinda different for everyone but like an estimate would be good, lol. I kinda hover between 10 and a lil bit beyond 10.5 when hard, i mean you know, depends on how uhh stimulated i am and what not, but i haven't exactly stopped growing. It sounds embarrassing i know but i keep track lol

And yeah i guess lube is good and just taking things easy. Am just worried i might end being a lil bit too much for most and... yeah.

And lose pants is an option. Would tight underwear be suitable too? Dunno if it would cut my circulation or something like that.

That depends person to person. For me you will reach 13 inches when you will got older, but it depends person to person. You should check it constantly and make your plans.

William2025 May 12th 2025 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Astro04 (Post 1399720)


That depends person to person. For me you will reach 13 inches when you will got older, but it depends person to person. You should check it constantly and make your plans.

Yeah, i am definitely gonna keep measuring just in case, lol. But hopefully not too much, my mornings are... difficult and class time even worse.

Astro04 May 12th 2025 09:17 PM

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Don't worry. :)
You can manage it! You're not the only one with that problem.

William2025 May 12th 2025 09:20 PM

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Uh one final question i guess, how much is too much? everyday i mean. Ya know.

SamuelB7 May 12th 2025 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Astro04 (Post 1399722)
Don't worry. :)
You can manage it! You're not the only one with that problem.

That's right I've learned to live with it I've measure every week and its kept growing slowly but I'm only 13 and my puberty not done yet

Astro04 May 12th 2025 09:25 PM

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Unfortunately, there is no a specific answer for that. Of course you can't gain an inch every day or it will be massive! For me, tou vill gain 1,5 inches at year. But it's only an idea, nothing written.

SamuelB7 May 12th 2025 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by William2025 (Post 1399723)
Uh one final question i guess, how much is too much? everyday i mean. Ya know.

That varies mine grew 2 inches in the last year

Astro04 May 12th 2025 09:26 PM

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See? All depends if your growth is fast or slow

William2025 May 12th 2025 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Astro04 (Post 1399725)
Unfortunately, there is no a specific answer for that. Of course you can't gain an inch every day or it will be massive! For me, tou vill gain 1,5 inches at year. But it's only an idea, nothing written.

Kinda checks out, yeh
But i meant like... uh, self pleasure? Hormones be crazy.

SamuelB7 May 12th 2025 09:34 PM

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You'll just got to be patient and wait . My doctor said puberty period varies from boy to boy and this is where hormones go crazy . You probably r going through puberty still yet therefore it could still grow more

Astro04 May 12th 2025 09:34 PM

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Self pleasure in this case won't make you bigger faster.

William2025 May 12th 2025 09:36 PM

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Oh no no, this is besides the initial questions

Astro04 May 12th 2025 09:40 PM

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Hm? Your growth isn't directly connected to self pleasuring.

William2025 May 12th 2025 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Astro04 (Post 1399732)
Hm? Your growth isn't directly connected to self pleasuring.

sigh

No no its....

Blegh okay i will try to be direct. how many times per day can be too much? its... uh 3-5 times for me everyday

Astro04 May 12th 2025 09:44 PM

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Ah! Sorry, didn't want to be mean.
3-5 times is okay for you!

William2025 May 12th 2025 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Astro04 (Post 1399734)
Ah! Sorry, didn't want to be mean.
3-5 times is okay for you!

oh no no its ok, its just embarrassing lol

Astro04 May 12th 2025 09:50 PM

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Don't worry, don't be. All of us know that problem "almost" well. If you want to seek advice for that, you're in the right place.

SamuelB7 May 12th 2025 09:54 PM

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William it's ok for u to ask those questions. I also do it [masturbate] every day

Astro04 May 12th 2025 10:02 PM

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Like anyone else.


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