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Hi,

over the past year or so I had the thought of banging a man. It was disgusting at first but then i started to like it. I could never date one. I also want to date and marry a girl. I'm confused does this make me bisexual or what

Thank You

Well, for me you're not bisexual. Maybe he wasn't good enough for you.

Hey :)

Having thoughts about being physical with a man doesn't necessarily mean you'd want to date one. It's possible to be sexually attracted to one gender, and romantically attracted to another. It could be that you're bisexual, but heteroromantic (you're sexually attracted to the same sex and the opposite sex, but romantically attracted only to the opposite sex).

That being said, having thoughts about being physical doesn't necessarily mean anything at all. It could just be a curiosity.

It isn't always easy to label your sexuality, so don't feel like you need to pick a label and stick to it if it doesn't feel right to you. I can't say what you are, but it's okay to toy around with different labels and see what works. :)

I have a similar situation, but I am disgusted mostly because I am attracted to my friends, and I also like girls.