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Girlfriend walked in on me
My gf walked in on me lastnight while i was masturbation and she smiled but than walked out. If you walked in on your bf or any guy what would you do? And what would you think?
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I'd like to think I'd offer to help but knowing me I'd probably apologise and duck out. :bleh:
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I wouldn't really care. My boyfriend has masturbated while I was in the room more than once. :nosweat: We really don't mind, we're very open with one another.
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It's a natural thing and we know guys tend to need it to relieve sexual tension among other things. But, if I was around, I'd hope it was me doing that to him not him, lol!
You should talk to her and see how she feels about it if you are concerned. Jay. |
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It's definitely natural to masturbate so I'd probably just apologize and leave the room.
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I would just probably smiles and walk out because it's completely natural, it's not that big of a deal to me.
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My boyfriend has masturbated while I've been in the room before, so it would be no big deal. It would probably end up in even more happening haha.
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It's human nature to masturbate. I'm sure everyone does it at least every once in awhile. It's human nature to relieve sexual tension and no risk of pregnancy so it's a win win. :D
I really doubt she was weirded out or anything. If anything she may have been turned on. Who wouldn't be? I'd probably smile and walk out as well. I do understand you being embarrassed or feeling awkward but in a relationship you two should be pretty comfortable after awhile. :) I wouldn't worry about it. ~ Christabel |
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Well, You know me, I'd join in on releasing this monster :whistle:
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Do: Apologize for not knocking, ask if he needs assistance and if not leave him be.
Think: Oops, better knock next time. Now I'm in the mood, dang it. |
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Hmm, not sure what I'd do but most girls understand that most boyf's do it so I don't think I'd mind. [EDITED]
Happy Christmas! Rach |
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Lol, I usually just assume that a guy does masturbate, it's not unnatural to do. So I wouldn't be shocked if I "saw" it somehow. I know some girls (or boys to I am guessing) get insecure if their partner still does stuff like maturating because "if he has me why does he need to do it?" but I think we can all agree that there is more to the matter than that.
I think if it was me I'd just go away, or offer to help haha... |
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Join him :hehe:
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Guess I'm alone here. I'd be kinda pissed. You want to get off, I'm in the house, but you don't want to have sex with me? I'd be offended.
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I agree with Lissa. Masturbation is normal, but if I was around and I caught him masturbating.. I'd be a bit offended. We live together, so I would take it as a sign that something is going south with our sex life or relationship in general. But I would probably, at that moment, ask if he needed help.. then talk to him about it later.
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That ^^
I mean, while I'm not home sure. But while I am there? Medical issues would make it really difficult. D: |
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That's why I wait til he's sleeping to take care of things myself, if need be :P |
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I was thinking more from the point of view that if I just happened to show up... Or that I wouldn't care if he did it overall... I can see it from both views, like if I was at his house its like if he wants it why is he doing it by himself? But then again, maybe I just wasn't in the mood? Hypothetically... I dunno, it's all situational though right (for me at least), there are some circumstances where I'd be a little offended/weirded out or others where I'd think that it wasn't a big deal...
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I have done this many times with my husband.. I would talk out the feelings if you need to with her. I learn to live with it and I will admit the first time it happened to me I was a little shocked. I thought why dont you just ask me to do things with you or something!! Although I realize now I could never keep up with how often he wants it. It is a natural thing so I wouldn't worry to much but if she has a problem let her know its only natural.
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If the guy was my boyfriend? I'd ask to help.
Any other guy? Depends on the type of relationship we had. If it was my best friend, I'd probably still ask to join, though I know he'd get really embarrassed, despite the fact he practically tells me all the times he's masturbated and I've almost walked in. :p A guy I didn't know very well? I'd just walk out, maybe make a joking comment. Dude, it's no big deal. All guys masturbate. As do most girls. I can understand why it might be embarrassing, but it's nothing to dwell on. |
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I'm not gonna lie, I'd feel a bit offended since I'm with my fiance all the time when one of us isn't at work...& if he did he better be thinking of me :P
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If it were my partner I'd playfully ask if they wanted any help. If they said no, I would teasingly tell them to have fun and go about my thing. It's really no big deal.
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