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crazyjoe567

January 25th 2014 06:06 PM

I don't see the point in a girlfriend but I still feel like I want one

For some reason deep down I want a girlfriend. I don't know why since all the reasons for having one don't matter to me much. I don't usually have problems with being alone, I don't need to share things, if I told them secrets I still wouldn't trust them. I just don't see why I would want one. Does anyone else feel the same?

DeletedAccount19

January 25th 2014 06:16 PM

Re: I don't see the point in a girlfriend but I still feel like I want one

Yeah, I know that feeling. I'd like to be with someone, just to be with someone. I have trust issues, so I most likely wouldn't tell them any secrets.

taylalatbh.

January 25th 2014 06:34 PM

Re: I don't see the point in a girlfriend but I still feel like I want one

I personally don't feel the same, but it's normal to feel a bit odd about things like this during your teenage years. If you're not interested in dating now then that's okay, you don't need to. Maybe you'll feel the urge to in a few years, but if you don't, that's fine. There are some people in the world who would just rather be on there own and that's completely acceptable.

Don't rule out dating just yet, but you might just need a bit of time to yourself, though. I hope you manage to work through this.

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