If your family would be upset with you, then that's a sign you need to wait. You're only 14, you're still in school, right? You may feel like you want a child, but you also need an education. You can't look after a child, and teach a child the necessary lessons, if you yourself have yet to learn them. A lot of the time young girls feel like they want to have a baby, but that feeling usually comes from wanting to mother something, maybe see if you could get a kitten or a dog? You would get almost the same feelings from raising an animal at your age
