[anonymouswhale]

Hi there,

Nicole really raised a good point by asking you if this was really the first time you've been to her house after 3.5 years.

Regardless, obviously that wasn't the first impression that you wanted to make with her mother. It's really a teen's worst nightmare- to get caught.

That being said, her mother's opinion is just one opinion. Some parents might not butt into their child's sex life at all. Some might tell you to wait until you're married. Do you feel at a point in your relationship where sex is the next step to take? Do you feel prepared to be careful and responsible about it? If so, then her mother's opinion might not necessarily stop you two. In fact, I tend to doubt that it will.

I think the next step to take would be to talk to your girlfriend. Ask her what she thinks you should do. Does her mother know that you're sorry? Don't stress about it- it happens! Although, if there is a lock on the door, that can come in handy for anything you two might be doing (and has saved me from those situations numerous times).

All in all, you've been dating for a while and obviously trust your girlfriend and want to look like a good fit in her parents' eyes. I don't know if her mother necessarily wants another apology- but talking to your girlfriend would give you a better idea.

Good luck!