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The best way to "get over" being shy and awkward in social situations is to, well, be in social situations. I know plenty of people who are still shy in social situations but they're able to go without a serious case of fear of doing something wrong / weird / awkward holding them back.

I think it helps to start small, like don't start by going to big parties (unless, of course, you take comfort in knowing a large crowd will allow you to blend in unnoticed if you're uncomfortable). You can always have your boyfriend go with you too. Eventually it gets easier to go out there.