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				Re: Is this self-harm? thread. - 
            
          
		
		
				
		
				September 3rd 2018, 03:33 PM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
So here is is. Here are my thoughts right off the bat: 
 
- Take the first person out of the first part.
 
- Change the definition, maybe make it our own and adding more to it (maybe removing the part about how it leaves marks for more than a few minutes).
 
- Expand the list a little bit and add to a method if needed, like a description.
 
- Link to other helpful areas.
 
  
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				Many people ask "Is this self harm?" with various  scenarios they're dealing with on a daily basis. I hope to make this  clear what self harm is, and what is considered self harm, and what's  not. 
 
The definition of self harm is: 
"Self-injury, self-inflicted violence, self-injurious behavior                    or self-mutilation is defined as a deliberate, intentional                    injury to one’s own body that causes tissue damage or                    leaves marks for more than a few minutes which is done to  cope                   with an overwhelming or distressing situation."   
 
Anything you do to physically hurt yourself in order help yourself cope with a situation is self harm.  
 
Things considered self harm: 
-Cutting 
-Burning 
-Branding (Taking hot objects and putting them on your skin) 
-Picking at your skin 
-Scratching 
-Taking off scabs/Picking at old wounds 
-Pulling out hair 
-Hitting 
-Bone breaking 
-Biting 
-Multiple piercings/tattoos (Can be self harm if done for the pain) 
-Drinking harmful chemicals (Just to harm body) 
-Smoking/drugs (Just to harm body) 
 
And this isn't even a full list. If you are doing any of those things,  you should ask yourself if you're doing it just for the pain, or to make  yourself feel better. If you are, it's probably self harm. 
 
If you do find something you're doing is self harming, you should see a  professional, such as a doctor, a therapist, a psychiatrist, or someone  similar who can help you. People will understand, though not everyone  will, professionals are trained to deal with situations like yours.  They're there to help. 
 
Source: 
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/self_injury.htm
			
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