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Re: Helped a mate - December 29th 2020, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by bringmethehorizon♥ View Post
Thanks for your reply I really appreciate it!
Just really stressing me out
My friend has a job that he is over qualified for just to get by on as he was made redundant.
I asked him aboout getting a higher paying job again and his response was waiting for Covid to go away maybe I just have a different mind set I don’t let the situation stop me or slow me down

He has kids family I want the money back eventually am I being an ass hole?
He may have too much on his mind or too many things going on to risk losing the job he has if any new jobs application or probation period falls through. I can understand his thoughts on Covid, a lot of people are trying to stick with the job they have because many people have been made unemployed, so those with jobs just stick with it to make money at the expense of their own happiness.

I don't think you're being an a-hole for wanting your money back eventually. I definitely agree with Hollie though, see if you can get a written statement or confirmation of monetary transfer to ensure you get the money back. At the moment, it's just your word against his, outside of a bank statement and transfer.