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Re: Not friends anymore...? - September 2nd 2021, 03:41 PM
It definitely does hurt when friends invite other people to things and then don't invite you, especially if it's something really big and they assume you don't want to/can't go. I've had that happen recently in one of my friend groups!

Do you think it would be worth it to talk to them about how this hurts you? It may not be that they don't have to be friends anymore, but it may be that they genuinely didn't realize how much this would hurt you. If they don't know, they'll never be able to rectify the situation. Maybe let them know that even if you may not be able to go for whatever reason, you still appreciate the invites and being included in things.

I know this wasn't super detailed advice but I mainly wanted to let you know that you definitely aren't alone in that, and your feelings are very valid!

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