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Hey,

This is a complicated situation to be in for sure!

Experimentation with sexual activity is definitely normal, although boundaries do have to be set so everyone knows what’s agreed upon and what you’re comfortable with. From what I’m understanding, you didn’t stop when he asked you to and kept going. That would be crossing a huge boundary and violated consent.

It’s not a matter of him being homophobic or not. If he wanted you to stop before he finished and you didn’t he has the right to be upset and he has the right to wish to stop engaging in these activities with you at any time. Don’t let that stop you from being honest though, even if it means these acts won’t continue. If you do end up doing it again, make sure to stay within what was consented to because a violation of that could be considered sexual assault.