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Re: I can't get my head round whether this is rape or not.. - December 21st 2009, 04:43 AM

Hey Gabby,

I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been through. What he did to you was wrong, it was awful and no human being deserves to be put through that.

If you said "no" at any point in time, it was absolutely rape. The fact that he may have spiked your drink only strengthens this conclusion. If you said "no", he should have stopped right then, no questions asked.

I know this is so hard to cope with and to accept. I want you to know that you are not alone; you can always come to me if you need to talk about anything. I'm here for you. Just stay strong and keep fighting, alright? You are a strong woman, and you can get through this.

Take care...and please, PM me any time.


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