[shimmeringfaerie]

I've always thought that handling a penis was a lot less serious than a guy touching a girl.

Maybe it's just me, but I think that's quite a sexist attitude to have. Like it's okay for you to touch a guy's genitals because that's no big deal, but your body is too special and important for him to touch? Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but it sounds like you don't have as much respect for men as you do for women. And that doesn't seem fair.

I want to clarify that you definitely do not owe him anything nor should you let a guy touch you if you are uncomfortable with that. He didn't have any right to get angry at you. But I do feel like maybe there is a double-standard here that isn't fair. If you don't want him to touch you for his enjoyment, then why is it okay for you to touch him for your enjoyment?