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Re: Letting a guy touch your breasts - August 31st 2010, 05:11 PM

I'm guessing the reason he got mad is because you gave him the wrong impression. Handjobs definitely are more serious, and since you were willing to do that for him I guess the guy got the impression you liked him or wanted to engage in mutual sexual activity. Basically instead you pretty much said "no, I'm doing this purely for my own enjoyment, I expect to touch you wherever I like but demand full privacy of my own body". The double standard is slightly sexist. A "casual handjob" would be the exact same as being "casually fingered", and I doubt you'd be too happy if any guy suggested that.

You definitely don't owe him anything, and him getting mad at you was a little silly. It's good that you didn't let him pressure you or anything and you handled the situation fine. But yeah, definitely more serious. Let him know your exact intentions next time.


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