[taylalatbh.]

I'm surprised that you found someone who will do your tattoo at 14. I'm sure it's illegal, but either way.

This has nothing to do with your self harm issues, or anything. But having a visible tattoo, no matter what it says, isn't really a good idea. For when you're older, you'll struggle getting a job because it's difficult to get employed with a visible tattoo showing. And you wouldn't want to risk that because getting a job and money to support yourself is more important, really.

I'm not trying to have a go or anything, and I know you didn't want replies like this, but I think it's important that you know what your actions could do to you in 5 years once you've grown up and matured, and head out into the real world.

Take care.