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Re: Cutting - January 17th 2011, 06:59 PM

Hey their, it's great for your friend that she has someone like you in her life that cares. As kelly and Fred have said I would definitley show her that list. Also, their isn't always a ton you can do for self harmers. Just be there for her and let her know she can always come to you. One method that actually did work for me was the butterfly project, with butterflies drawn on by those closest to me.

Like Fred mentioned I would see if you could find her reasons and any possible triggers. If you can help her to avoid all triggers and remind her that you love her and care about her. Let her know that she isn't only hurting herself but others too when she cuts. It may make her feel a bit guilty, but it helps. Hope I helped and best of luck