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				Re: Can I really be pregnant? - 
            
          
		
		
				
		
				April 27th 2011, 09:52 PM
			
			
			
		 
		
	
                
            	
		
		
This is an incredibly ugly situation. Being 11 and going through childbirth, that is a risky situation, both for you and the baby. An abortion seems like the best option, you have to think what will happen down the road rather than what will happen at this moment.  
  
An abortion, as cruel as it may seem, will prevent many uneeded situations both for you and the child. If you or your family are unable to take care of the child and put it up for adoption, you never know who your child may get as a parent. If you decide to keep it and they get older and ask who their father is, do you really want to have to go through the emotional stress of telling your child they are a rapist's child? All that seems a lot more cruel than abortion to me. 
  
The choice, however, is still your own. I hope everything turns out well.
 
		
	
		
		
                
		
		
			 
            
                
            
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