[.Jess.]

Hey Marissa

This sounds like a very frustrating position to be in and I really feel for you It's not fair that someone can make you feel like that after you've spent so long getting yourself to a place where you are able to begin to talk about what happened to you. Don't let this girl ruin all the hard work you've done. You sound like you've really fought to get where you are now

The thing about rape is it isn't black and white. People's persceptions of it vary, do you think she genuinly thinks she was raped and is confused of it's actual definition?

You mentioned you aren't really friends with her anymore, I know that I don't really know you or her, but in my opinion I'd say that was a pretty good thing, particularly if it's going to hinder you Is there anything you feel you can do to help you move on from this? Is there anyone in your life you can talk to about how you're feeling about this? I'm always here if you want a chat

You've been through a lot, keep going and stay strong. Take care