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Re: Soon to be marine boyfriend, marry young? Move on base? Put college on hold? - October 4th 2011, 05:04 PM

Rachel, take a deep breath here, you've got two years to make a decision!

It's understandable to want to plan things out, especially when there's a goal in mind (marriage), which is driven by emotion (love), and you have a particular person in mind (him!). However, as they say, "Time tells". So, although you might feel better making a decision now, there's really too much time btw'n now and when you'd have to execute that decision, too much that's now unaccountable for can still affect the end result.

Sit with it for a while and see how life unfolds.


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