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				Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive? - 
            
          
		
		
				
		
				November 30th 2011, 10:43 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
	I would talk to her about this. If it bothers you so completely, then I would speak to her about it. Communication is very important, and without it, there isn't much of a relationship there.Quote: 
	
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					Originally Posted by nicky1  Thank you for answering! 
 Of course that's exactly the only thing which is important, what you said.
 
 I do it, she does it from time to time, I get it how it works, there's nothing we can do about it. But I'm still bothered by following: how come I have the control over myself to look down immediately when I notice someone attractive purely out of respect for my girlfriend, and she on the other hand openly says "That guy is so handsome". I can guarantee that if I said "Wow, that girl is so hot" she would get very angry at me, hell she gets angry if she catches me looking just for a second. Well, if she knows exactly how it feels I was confused why she would do the same thing to me, if not worse, anyways.
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