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Name: Jenn
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Re: Girlfriend has an inferiority complex - June 27th 2012, 04:48 AM

I don't think you are going wrong. I'm sure she's grateful for what you're doing, but she probably feels bad because of it. I know that I don't really like my boyfriend spending money on me, but I would also do the same for him if I actually had a job. He actually offered to loan me money once. I didn't accept because I really don't need new clothes or whatever, but he still does a lot for me, and I do appreciate him.

Like I said, I think this is something she needs to work on. Try sitting her down and telling her that you just want what's best for her when you get her things, and that you want her to be happy. Ask her what you could change (if anything) and ask why she gets upset about it. Maybe she feels bad that she can't reciprocate? It didn't seem to me like you were flaunting anything, have you explained that you just like talking about that kind of thing with others?

I had other things to say, but I forgot xD I hope this helps.