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Re: steps to getting a girlfriend? - July 20th 2012, 06:47 AM
LOL to Brandon.
But in all seriousness, the best way to go about this in my opinion would be to first find a girl that you actually have feelings for. Then start by becoming friends and just get to know each other. Then once you've gotten closer you should talk to her and tell her how you feel and see if she would like to go on a date with you. If she says no, then you do your best to handle the rejection and start over with another girl. If she says yes, then go on a few dates and then ask her if she'd like to make it official.

Honestly there are no actual 'steps' to this, you just have to go with what's happening and do what feels right. Take things slow and don't stress yourself out about this, you'll get a girlfriend in time. You're still young and have lots of time for relationships- many people don't even start dating until they're in their 20's.

And here you are living, despite it all.
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