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Dude111

September 18th 2026 12:24 PM

I am sure that mostly everyone here has been in a situation where you have had to forgive someone for something that they have done to you.

I have tried to forgive the people who hurt me terribly in 2021 but they wont let it go and it sad...

Im not mad at them.. THE MEDIA LIED TO THEM AND MADE US L00K BAD.. (The ones who saw thru it)

I love them terribly and it just hurts me more than I can say that he wont let this go. They started this,they need to let it go http://www.teenhelp.org/images/icons/icon9.gif

~Misguided Ghosts~

September 18th 2026 06:12 PM

Re: Making peace with those who have hurt you...

Making peace can definitely be difficult sometimes. I think you've already completed the first step by saying you're not mad at them. I think it comes down to radically accepting what you can't change. That doesn't mean you have to be happy with how things turned out. It means that you accept that this is what has happened and you have done the best you could given the situation at hand. It may be worth trying to avoid contact with the people who won't let things go. Ignore them so they're not getting a reaction out of you.

Dude111

September 19th 2026 01:46 AM

I know sweetie... Its very sad :(

I was there,I know what happend and what the dad told my friends and my dad doesnt believe me.. (He lied to him also)

Mindfulness.

September 29th 2026 03:16 AM

Re: Making peace with those who have hurt you...

While I understand what you are saying, sometimes it's more difficult than that. I hate holding onto grudges but allowing someone to be a part of your life who is toxic and does more damage also has its effects.

Dude111

September 29th 2026 03:20 AM

Ya you dont know how hard it is..

Its aweful your own father wont help you AND ITS HIS FAULT REALLY THINGS HAVE GOTTON S0 BAD!

Mindfulness.

September 30th 2026 04:57 AM

Re: Making peace with those who have hurt you...

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Originally Posted by Dude111 (Post 1406993)

Ya you dont know how hard it is..

Its aweful your own father wont help you AND ITS HIS FAULT REALLY THINGS HAVE GOTTON S0 BAD!

I'm sorry to hear that. If you ever need to have a chat, my inbox is always open.

Dude111

September 30th 2026 05:47 AM

Mucho Gracios!!

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