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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.
I'm not really too keen to be working for you anymore. Especially when you don't plan on hiring another woman.
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I have SEVERAL GOOD reasons for not listening to you, but the fact that I buck your authority is all you care about. If you won't listen to why, and you "Don't know what to do anymore" might I suggest LETTING IT GO?!
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Yes, I called off for the second time in 2 years, because the thought of dealing with you all night, when I'm already sick, and probably won't sleep well, was not appealing. Have fun doing everything yourself for once. I hope you have a bad enough night to finally appreciate me.
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This documents in writing that I want to talk to him, lets you know that, and also lets you set aside the time for me. This should not concern you if you have done your job. But, this is absolutely my last resort. If he can't make anything happen, I'm done. Probably should've been years ago.
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the reason i dont open up to you is because you already get mad at me when i dont share anything
you ordering me to be vulnerable doesnt make me want to be vulnerable i look up to you but lately how youve been acting is making me care less about what you think and the less i care the less i wanna share |
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It looks like the tables have turned, and I'm not mad about it. He did it to teach me a lesson about how hard your job is; and I ended up proving to them what I've known from day 1. That I'm absolutely capable of doing it, and it's not as hard as you're making it.
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i cant change that part of me so if youve got a problem with it then you gotta change because you can change your atitude
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So, apparently the solution is that I process these things for at least 24 hours, and then text them to you. It's the only way I can clearly communicate calmly and be understood.
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The unfairness and double standards are sickening, and you don't even see them. You either value my opinion and input, or you don't. And based on your constant defense of them, and criticism of me, you obviously don't.
I hope the fact that she switched her shift doesn't mean you're not coming in tomorrow. Or that we're short again because tonight SUCKED, which is the wrong time for the top manager to just not come in because he feels like it. Unless something else went wrong, but I think you've been through it all this year already. |
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I stopped trusting people because you broke everything I ever had. Thank you so much for the despairing feeling of loneliness
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One sentence from you can ruin the effects of all the work and effort I've put into healing and growth.
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I'm looking forward to how you're going to help fix this. As long as it doesn't involve causing a meltdown to "prove it'll be fine", I trust you completely. And the only reason I'm afraid is because you seem to misunderstand the term INVOLUNTARY
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I'm so, so sorry. I hope I'm not hurting you too much. I know what it's like to be on the other end of this.
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Apparently, we need to talk about this again, because not only have you admitted to other people that you've been a complete ass, but you had me convinced I was the problem. You get grace because you're human, and we expect this when your boss comes, but this is NOT okay long term. If I can't bring that to work, neither can you!
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It's not the change in boundaries alone that's the problem, the entire environment and culture have shifted. If it isn't temporary, you're going to start losing people.
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I know you don't want to, but part of me hopes you have to. Like you told me "That's the job." It's what you signed up for, like it or not. Plus, you're still my favorite for some reason, and I don't know how much longer I'll last if things don't work themselves out.
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I'm not imagining it and I finally figured out what it's called; not that explaining it will do any good whatsoever. You've made it EXTREMELY clear which side you're on. I can only hope you catch her doing it.
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