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pregnant???help!!!

on august 6 i had sex with my boyfriend not protected (i know thats so stupid) and it was for less than i minute he never came at all nothing came out of his penis. its been almost 2 weeks since then and im SO scared that i could be pregnant. :'( i have been urinating more often my breasts are kind of tender and i am very bloated in my lower stomach area. i finished my period august 5 and i noticed signs of ovulation on august 15. can i ovulate during pregnancy? please help me im worried and scared!! my bf says im paranoid but irdk. PLEASE HELP :'(

Re: pregnant???help!!!

Hey,
It's unlikely that you are pregnant. In order for sperm to meet egg, you have to ovulate. You don't ovulate when you're pregnant. Sperm can live inside you for up to 5 days, which would mean if sperm did enter you on August 6, it would have died by August 11; and if you ovulated on August 15, that sperm would be dead. I really doubt you're pregnant, but if it'll ease your mind wait until August 20th and take a pregnancy test. Stressing out will only delay your next period, which isn't due for a couple more weeks anyway.

Also, sperm is only present in pre-ejaculation if he ejaculated previously and didn't urinate.

Re: pregnant???help!!!

Hi there,

As stated above, it's very unlikely that you're pregnant. Ovulation doesn't occur when you're pregnant. There is no point: an egg would already be fertilized, and you don't get a period when you're pregnant. To ovulate would just be a waste of eggs (even though we have thousands).

It's only been two weeks since this happened, so the breast tenderness and bloating you're experiencing is likely from the fact that you're pysching yourself about being pregnant, not from actually being pregnant. Symptoms don't show up the second an egg and sperm meet. It's likely that your body might not even be able to tell you that you're pregnant, though two weeks is usually enough time allotted for it to show up on a pregnancy test. Symptoms don't usually begin until 6-8 weeks, sometimes more.

If you're truly worried, take a pregnancy test. It's the only way to know for sure. Freaking out is only going to make it worse, so calm down. There really isn't anything to worry about.