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I like my friend's boyfriend. help!

The title basically says it. I've liked this guy for ages but i've been too scared to tell him and I know he doesnt like me in the same way (obviously since he's now with my friend). Now heres the most complicated thing. My friend hasnt been with him long and she hasnt long broken up with her ex who I think she still like. She also has a repretation for getting into rebound relationships just to make her ex jealous and im scared thats what shes doing now. I dont want to see her bf get hurt because I care about him as hes my friend and I want him to be happy. Just dont know whether to say anything or not, should I be worried or am I just jealous of my friend being with the guy I like?

Re: I like my friend's boyfriend. help!

Firstly, as much as you like the guy and as much as you like the girl as your friend, I strongly advise not to intervene in their relationship. It'll only end up with you being the bad guy for trying to get in the middle of their relationship.

As for your jealousy, there's not really much you can do about it. Since he's dating your friend, you couldn't try and make any moves on him. And even if he wasn't, you said that he doesn't like you in that way. It sounds like he's a good friend to you though, so maybe that might be enough for you.

I would say that you should just try and move on from him. He's not into you and he's dating your friend. He couldn't be more unavailable. Try and move your affections on to someone else, someone who likes you back.

Take care.