[PSY]

Hey there! The solution seems pretty obvious to me: ask your crushes out! What stood out to me is that you "have a crush on a guy for ages"... well, you gotta ACT on that crush at some point! Otherwise, they'll pursue someone else, either because they don't know how you feel, or because they're getting mixed signals (ex. "She seems to flirt with me sometimes, but I can't quite tell... maybe she just sees me as a friend?").

The wonderful thing about dating is that it's just that: dating. You don't have to sign a contract after the first date. You can go on a few dates, or several dates, and THEN decide if you're compatible with your crush. Basically, there's little harm in asking someone out within a month or so of crushing on them. What CAN be harmful, as you've discovered, is waiting too long. Crushes can be relatively short-lived, so take advantage of the small window of opportunity these guys give you, and see how they respond.