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Storyteller. August 21st 2012 04:01 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Keeping busy and giving myself no time to stop and think about SH.

Lumos. August 21st 2012 04:21 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Watching tv, and on Tumblr.

Halcyon August 23rd 2012 08:01 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Calming myself down by being more aware of my breathing and controlling it.

Kumagoro August 24th 2012 02:47 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Watching a dvd, talking to my brother.

Everglow. August 24th 2012 05:38 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Setting myself goals to be SH free until a certain event.

Stargazed. August 24th 2012 06:11 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
By watching Good Luck Charlie :hehe:

oldaccount August 25th 2012 03:26 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Remembering that my boyfriend will peek under the wristband at random times.

theinfatuatedpanda August 26th 2012 09:00 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
By focusing on my studies. (and Math....something I'm quite horrible at)

oldaccount August 26th 2012 02:51 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Not having the opportunity to go out and buy "stuff that works better".

Disappearing August 26th 2012 04:01 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Drawing butterflies on myself, in permanent markers. You can't harm yourself until the butterfly goes away, and permanent marker lasts awhile, so it makes me take time to calm down.

Goodbye_Lullaby August 26th 2012 04:20 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Knowing that my mum will be hurt if she found out. So Im tryin to stop for her. I love my mum <3

Stargazed. August 27th 2012 07:39 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Making recovery posters to hang in my room. :)

Greenie August 28th 2012 07:45 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I found my ultimate motivator.
I want to quit so I can go to France in November with my school. My progress is being closely monitored, so I'm going to put in my very best effort to fight this. I'm not going to let self-harm get in the way of my goal <3

Tigereyes August 31st 2012 10:24 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I cried myself to sleep. Ah well, it worked.

Squiggly August 31st 2012 11:15 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I'm not really sure anymore how I do it. I guess I just know for sure that I don't want to anymore so I am doing my very best not to. I keep telling myself just make it another month and it will feel like a great accomplishment and it always does! Then It just makes me excited to start my next month.

Kumagoro August 31st 2012 10:13 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Talking to a friend on Facebook. And writing angry music.

Lumos. September 1st 2012 03:25 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Listening to music. :)

Tigereyes September 4th 2012 01:27 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
iPod, texting my best friend, on here

random.swirls September 4th 2012 05:51 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Hi, today I manage to stop myself from self harming by making a book for my young cousin!

Evanesco September 5th 2012 10:36 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
By playing Pokemon in the middle of the night. :p

random.swirls September 5th 2012 10:40 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I stopped myself from self harming by going for a long walk xx

PleaseDontLetMeGo September 9th 2012 06:19 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I have been thinking about cutting again when yesterday a friend of mine told that when i feel like i should a piece of paper and pencil and go all Avril Lavigne and thats what i do now. I have been self-harm free for 70 days.

.:PrincessZelda:. September 9th 2012 11:02 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Listening to music, exercising, doing homework, talking to my bff on skype

Pyromania September 12th 2012 11:34 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
By using sheer willpower. I don't find occupational methods very helpful - if I want to stop doing something, I just 'quit' there and then. Sort of an impulse, heat of the moment thing.

It's worked, given that I'm approaching two years free...:shifty:

Tigereyes September 13th 2012 01:16 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I stopped myself tonight. I was literally about to cut, then I thought about how I didn't want anymore scars and I wanted to get better. Also thought about how I'll probably see my best friend this weekend and if she asked about it, I'd rather tell her I haven't hurt myself in a few weeks rather than just a few days.

oldaccount September 13th 2012 11:54 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
By giving my boyfriend my blade and promising him I wouldn't hurt myself anymore.

Lumos. September 25th 2012 02:48 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Online, and watching tv.

DeletedAccount32 September 26th 2012 01:26 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Talking to my beautiful girlfriend about it. <3

Validity September 27th 2012 03:16 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
A whole hell of will-power!

JAy.

Disappearing September 28th 2012 04:32 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I've been emailing myself when I feel like doing it, sort of like an online journal that only I can see.
I also made a list of goals to start small without SH and eventually progress to not doing it anymore.

RollingOn September 28th 2012 07:47 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I go to the skatepark or I hit the streets and pick something to conquer that day. A 2 set of stairs, a 4-set, a drop etc etc.

oldaccount September 28th 2012 05:37 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Going to homecoming without a wristband.

Evanesco September 29th 2012 11:05 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Distracting myself by reading a lot of good books.

CarliAnn October 1st 2012 03:07 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Not being alone when the waves of depression come over me.

oldaccount October 1st 2012 11:26 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Staying strong for someone who has been staying strong for me.

Lumos. October 2nd 2012 12:13 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I want my parents to trust me. :)

Validity October 2nd 2012 12:43 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I told myself what my mum said, that she was in tears from a nightmare she'd had of me. I promised her and I failed :/ I hate breaking promises :'( now my will-power isn\'t enough.... MIght just read or watch TV, something lazy or leave the house, distance myself from the matches.

Jay.

oldaccount October 4th 2012 02:40 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Not wanting to hear the pain in my boyfriends voice when he asks if I did it again

Evanescent October 5th 2012 01:03 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Last night it was really hard but I got out my "emergency kit" and tried nearly everything in it. I listened to calming music, I used smell goods, I drank tea but what really helped was I did a really hard sudoku puzzle, I wouldn\'t let myself self-harm until I was done with the puzzle. By the time I was done I was really tired and was able to lay down and I fell right to sleep.

Validity October 5th 2012 01:46 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Writing poems n how I feel. So, yeah, my poems are mostly depressive shit.
Or, playing sims, give my hands something to do.

Jay.


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