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Storyteller. March 30th 2012 10:31 AM

How are you beating Self Harm?
 
You know, the battle with self harm isn't always about how long you've gone without it for. Sometimes it's about the little victories. I thought it would be nice to have a thread where we can share our little accomplishments, like ignoring an urge, successfully using a distraction, recognising and dealing with a trigger, or any other things that have helped.

I'll start.

Today I realised I was getting triggered, so I removed myself from the situation and went for a walk instead.

Your turn.

SM13 March 30th 2012 10:55 AM

Re: What have you done?
 
I was going to cut last night but I talked to a friend and he was able to cheer me up. I've been 67 days cut free :)

Stargazed. March 30th 2012 08:13 PM

Re: What have you done?
 
Instead of harming myself, I cuddled with my stuffed dog and watched Friends until I fell asleep. :hehe:

Bibliophile March 30th 2012 09:49 PM

Re: What have you done?
 
I went and had lunch with friends, and then finished my book. :)

Tigereyes April 8th 2012 01:50 AM

Re: What have you done?
 
I've really wanted to cut since this afternoon and still want to after something one of my closest friends said. But I haven't and I'm trying not to.

Ennui. April 8th 2012 03:46 AM

Re: What have you done?
 
I made a challenge with my friend to not self harm for as long as possible and beat some records. I'm 22 days SH free currently, going for a month. :)

Bibliophile April 8th 2012 09:35 AM

Re: What have you done?
 
I did some revision and make myself some tea. Now I'm listening to music and watching a cheesey movie. :)

Laurasaurus April 9th 2012 02:20 AM

Re: What have you done?
 
I love the idea, Chess. <3
I ate chocolate to help myself feel better, and surprisingly, it worked. :dem:

Disappearing April 9th 2012 02:50 AM

Re: What have you done?
 
I took some time to talk to someone about what was triggering me, and it helped me see clearly.

Disappearing April 9th 2012 03:46 AM

Re: What have you done?
 
A really awesome person just gave me another idea.. It's kind of related to the butterfly project. He had me draw a caterpillar, then it going into its cocoon, then it starting to come out of its cocoon, then the most beautiful butterfly I possibly could. It helped.

Riddikulus April 9th 2012 10:35 AM

Re: What have you done?
 
I think this is a brilliant idea Chess.

I went for a walk and rung my best friend

aftershocks April 10th 2012 02:10 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I was going to cut. I really was. And then I took a deep breath, put the blade down, and walked out of the bathroom. And now I'm watching some Doctor Who. :)

Obliviate April 10th 2012 12:01 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I started a new arty project :dem:

Palmolive April 10th 2012 12:08 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I'm stalking Teenhelp users and I'm going to watch friends. ;)

Solivagant April 10th 2012 08:22 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I've been talking to a friend for hours and he has been really nice! I shared so much with him today and he wasn't judgmental even once!

Jack Lowden April 10th 2012 10:31 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Instead of doing something I knew I'd regret, I told someone my thoughts & they stayed up with me talking about it until I feel asleep.

.:PrincessZelda:. April 10th 2012 10:54 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
When I have the urge to cut, what I do to ignore it is watch youtube videos or listen to music.

Disappearing April 11th 2012 01:12 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I went running. :)

Ennui. April 11th 2012 01:51 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I took a shower instead of self harming. :)

Lumos. April 11th 2012 04:21 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
This is a great idea!
I was just about to cut, I had a blade next to me, but i put it away, and now im watching Harry Potter and trying to distract myself. :)

Storyteller. April 11th 2012 09:39 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I turned my urges into creativity and started a new story. :)

better-than-ecstasy April 11th 2012 10:04 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I have a vodo doll and I stab it instead of myself.

Stargazed. April 11th 2012 10:55 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I talked to my gf on the phone and now I'm watching a funny tv show. :p

BreakingBecci April 12th 2012 12:23 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I try telling myself that hurting myself is hurting others. It doesn't always work, but sometimes it's brilliant.

Ennui. April 12th 2012 01:35 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Today I was literally about to self harm but I went out and finished a letter instead once I saw my sister.

Bibliophile April 12th 2012 11:03 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I put on a movie and now I'm looking at buying more books. :D

Ella.x April 12th 2012 12:00 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I rearranged my books, CD's and DVD's into genre and then alphabetical order. Then I made myself some chicken noodle soup because it always makes me feel better and now I'm chilling out listening to music until I go to see my mum in about hald an hour. Distraction seems to be working today :)

MidnightMay April 13th 2012 01:34 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I went and ran two miles plus some bleachers till I cleared my head but it only helped for two days.

lauri April 13th 2012 01:40 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Im NOOTTTTT

Ennui. April 13th 2012 01:52 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by lauri (Post 852957)
Im NOOTTTTT

You can do this. Stay strong. :hug: It's hard, but you CAN do this.

Everyone is doing so wonderful, keep it up!

I went to therapy today and seeing how proud she was of me making it almost a month really helped.

lauri April 13th 2012 01:54 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I dont want to but thanks. I dont really do it.

Everglow. April 13th 2012 11:27 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I'm avoiding being in my room on my own and staying with my family so I wont give in.

You guys are doing well, keep it up. <3

Bibliophile April 13th 2012 12:12 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Last night I stayed up with her, and today I got up early and went shopping, now I'm distracting myself on here.

Evanesco April 13th 2012 02:52 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
Last night I watched Greenwing and texted my boyfriend and in the morning I realised that I had gone with self harm on a night where I had thought it would be impossible.

Magical Forest. April 13th 2012 03:19 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I went to group therapy and then went to my local MIND's young adults meeting place.

Lumos. April 13th 2012 09:28 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I promised a good friend i wouldn't. I just think about how disappointed she would be. It helps.

Stargazed. April 13th 2012 10:27 PM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I wrote the first part of my paper. :D

aftershocks April 14th 2012 05:26 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
All I'm doing is watching Tobuscus LPs on YouTube. Both distracting and ridiculously funny, so it's great.

Ambedo. April 14th 2012 05:36 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
I thought about how much my cousin would hate it if I broke my promise to her.

theinfatuatedpanda April 14th 2012 06:32 AM

Re: How are you beating Self Harm?
 
This may seem kinda obvious (:nosweat:) but I wrote in my journal. :) Writing always makes me feel good. :) x


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